Showing posts with label living a good life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label living a good life. Show all posts

Saturday, September 12, 2026

MONSOONING

Maybe this is the last hurrah for the rains. We were told it had rained heaps in Kep, not that it has not rained in PP but not much or for long. 


We’ve had a couple of wild storms but a few days ago the bedding got wet, for only the second time ever and then it happened again today too. 


I ’m grateful Ian saw the storm arrive and battened down the hatches at the back of the Aerie late in the afternoon just a few days ago. 



I was sound asleep in the living room when the storm hit but due to the thunderous sound, I awoke and wandered out onto the terrace, immediately saving a cushion from being completely drenched and rescuing a card that had blown off the fridge door and was floating in a pool of water rapidly approaching the front door. We often hear the approach of rain before we see it. 


Over lunch just that day we had said to Mary that there had been almost no rain recently and only threats, dark skies and drizzle. 



In the seconds it took Ian to react to the approaching storm having felt the wind coming through the back from his spot in the living room, my side of the bed was drenched through the open windows and the swimming gear drying on the back balcony was dripping wet again. 


When I was awakened by the thunderous noise of the rain on the corrugated iron roof above us and over the the terrace, Ian was already mopping waves of water out the back door onto the balcony and closing it to prevent more coming in. 



It was impossible to hear each other over the racket. I actually startled him even though I had been calling his name from the moment I woke up in the living room and wandered onto the terrace looking for him. 


Within ten minutes the rain had stopped the sky was dark and as night descended a startling pink sky emerged through the gloom. 



A few days later the rain started moments after we got into a tuk tuk some distance from home and it bucketed down. We climbed the stairs and were soaked to the skin by the time we reached the front door. For the next few hours it slowed, then picked up again, then positively poured down, in cycles. Steady soaking rain persisted for several hours. Hence the third dampening of the bedding through the open windows. 



Wow, finally the rain everyone has been wishing for, but with it comes instant flooding and hazards on some roads. At least unlike many places the floating garbage in our hood does not contain taped up polystyrene boxes full of other household and market waste. 



Last night we attended a soft opening party for a salon in our hood. It was a huge event conducted on the footpath in front of several different shops and attended by at least fifty people. Food and beer flowed, with an upbeat musical background that actually enabled conversation. Tables were set up as more family, guests, friends, neighbours and the proprietors of adjoining businesses joined in.  



When the rain started up we all rose and moved the table under whatever cover was available and carried on. There was dancing in the street and traffic continued on its way with motor scooter riders unfazed by the drenching and simply getting on with things. 



The Khmer embrace the rain and both children and adults delight in playing in it. While we few foreigners took to the cover of awnings there was never a suggestion that we should now abandon the celebration. It was all just part of the fun. Most guests waited the rain out but some were happy enough to climb into their vehicles or jump on the their motos once the downpour was reduced to a mere drizzle. 


Just one more reason to love our hood. 



Today undeterred we headed off to the local market as was the plan even though the rain had already started.



In fact I think the first drops fell just moments after I pegged the last item of washing on the line. No point attempting to bring it indoors to dry and we do have space because of course the rain stopped and a few hours later it was dry anyway. 



Only one casualty of the recent rains and the mobile shoe repairman fixed it this afternoon when he emerged in his usual position on the street. 




Thursday, August 6, 2026

One perfect day

 I have a habit of reflecting and journaling and radom writing and this morning I discovered this in a note in my phone. I have no recollection of actually writing it but it made me feel good to read it and realise there is something heartening about appreciating the little things. Living quietly and simply and understanding that, that is a privilege. This morning I also received positive feedback about my blog. which I so often fear is self indulgent so why not blog it?

One perfect day 


Life is good. It’s been a while since I thought that. 

I’m grateful I found new bathers (Is it only Aussies who use that term?) and went through the ordeal of trying them on in a closet sized fitting room today. I bought them. Well Ian paid actually. Best of all, they are my favourite colour and cost a quarter of what I usually have to pay.



Swimming for sanity is an established routine with me. I need it and it helps me unwind and relax as much as it challenges my physical being. I always leave the pool feeling calm and clear headed, in a better mood and more attuned to myself. 



I’m also delighted that we walked and distributed muesli cookies to several enterprises we know today too. Walking and observing the street scenes is a regular activity for us. Maybe we are urban strollers despite the challenges or maybe they are the appeal. If a task can be done on foot, it’s our preferred option, regardless of the obstacles. We also seek shade in preference to shortcuts. Though alleyways hold a special appeal too. 



The Decathlon employee we first proffered an open container of cookies to, was not shy. That was encouraging. Neither were the proprietors of Paradise, who just for the record hooked in straight away. We loved that too. Our server at Dorsu, positively beamed at the prospect. How good is that? This is not our first encounter with any of them but I’ve never offered a homemade cookie before. Maybe I will again. Adopting another idiosyncrasy cannot be the most judicious decision right now but it felt good.



Tonight, as we often do, we made dinner from scratch, from ingredients purchased in the local market, just that morning. During that excursion out we were instantly given two limes when we bought passionfruit. Later we selected two mangoes and the stall owner pointed out the bruise on another one and gave it to us. That experience set the tone for the whole day. We also purchased almost more produce than we could carry home. By now, we are well recognised regulars in this local market. 


Cooking commenced once we’d returned from having my bag repaired. It was a dash downstairs to the shoe repairman, who conveniently sits at a stall opposite the entrance to our community. He repaired the strap that broke for the princely sum of $2.50. We then climbed the four flights of stairs for the third and final time and decided that was it for the day. Thirteen flights in scorching heat is more than enough and the knees were both objecting by then. 



We shared some ciabatta, chapattis and baba ganoush with our neighbour. All Ian’s creations. Hummus and salad accompanied Ian’s bread for our causal dinner on the terrace and we washed it down with a few beers.




I liked me and the world I was moving through a whole lot more today than has recently been the case. It’s been a while since I felt that inner sense of calm. I’ll take that. 


Feels like one perfect day to me. 

20/6/26



I just returned to that date on my camera roll and included all the photos I took on that day and they seemed to work perfectly too. 

Life IS good. 


Tuesday, March 31, 2026

oNe PhOtO a DaY mArCh 2026

 

MARCH 1st A FORK: Yes I know it’s an oyster fork but as a vegetarian I bought it for fruit … a fork is a fork is a fork 


MARCH 2nd A TOY: or a piece of sports equipment I’m not sure but it is hugely popular with kids, youth and adults alike. Everyday people gather to play with these simple shuttlecocks in the twilight hours in Phnom Penh 



MARCH 3rd A BUILDING: still under construction but modern to the extreme and indicative of the changing face of Phnom Penh 



MARCH 4th A CLOUD: A single, black storm cloud superimposed over the usual white backdrop after a brief, unseasonal rainstorm this afternoon 



MARCH 5th A BOTTLE: I regularly refill with my homemade duplicate, now that it is no longer available for purchase



MARCH 6th A STREET SIGN: I spotted at the bus station this morning 



MARCH 7th A FLOWER: from the huge Sea Almond tree that grows inside Wat Phnom Pon above this reclining and other seated Buddhas 



MARCH 8th A DRINK: An Espresso Martini as a celebration of all the strong, independent and compassionate women. May we be them, raise them, teach them and appreciate them. May we always appreciate each other and stand strong together! Happy International Women's Day to all my sensational sisters out there



MARCH 9th A CAR: an archive shot for me today as we were on Rabbit Island on a beach day excursion with the little monks and it’s a vehicle free environment. This is a car which is an art installation/ advertising for a chocolate cafe in the very interesting precinct of Talat Noi in Bangkok 



 MARCH 10th A HAT: Not just any hat a Brokpa hat. The highland people of far eastern Bhutan wear these hats and the funny tails ensure the frequent rain they endure runs off their heads. I bought this one for Ian’s birthday when we visited the region so it’s another archive shot from Bhutan this time. Travelling today didn’t provide too many hat options in the bus and this is a favourite image 



MARCH 11th A SHADOW: of the fretwork depicting the wheel of dharma on the Wat Ounalom gates 



MARCH 12th A BOOK: As someone fascinated by words and their use, impact and evolution I’ve always collected quotes. I have also been obsessed with stationery since childhood. Hence this lovable little notebook hankering to be used 



MARCH 13th A PET (OR ONE YOU SAW): There are plenty of none-too- friendly street dogs in Cambodia but this little one has certainly been selected as a pet by a proud and happy new owner … we seem to have sneaked into the shot too as I didn’t pay attention to the mirror 



MARCH 14th A PAIR OF SHOES: It’s rare for me to wear actual shoes- flip flops and sandals yes but shoes no! We went to a theatre production last night and I wore my trusty linen pumps and walking there and back means my toes wish I hadn’t this morning 



MARCH 15th A WINDOW: An internal one and a feature of these old buildings that provides ventilation and light to the stairway. I love the design features that are both decorative and practical in buildings of this era before air conditioning was even a possibility. I promised myself we would restore it when we decided to purchase the apartment which also features round inserts in the walls. Here we are almost four years later and it still hasn’t been done



MARCH 16th A MESS: made by nature and aesthetic for that reason in my mind 



MARCH 17th A GAME: widely played in Cambodia with some beautifully, hand carved and well used sets found in little, corner cafes with five or six packed tables of players and many observers too. They were all amused by me taking a quick pic 



MARCH 18th A DOOR: I spotted out wandering



 MARCH 19th A PATTERN: Cosmic Mandala - It is a symbolic representation of part or all of the universe. It protects a person from the four elements’ calamities (Water, Fire, Earth and Wind) and hangs in our living room. One of the last purchases I made before leaving Bhutan the last time 



MARCH 20th A BALL: I know it’s not but it’s the closest I’ve got all day having spent nearly eight hours on a bus - ball shaped at least and taken on the day 



MARCH 21st A TREE: in the temple grounds adjacent to the hotel we are staying in. The chanting early this morning drew us out of bed to investigate 



MARCH 22nd A LETTER: One down, two to go. Keeping my snail mail project alive. There is no better time to write than when you are having an adventure



MARCH 23rd SUNGLASSES: they are not but with transitional lens they double as sunglasses or in my case quadruple since I have three multi focal lens in them too. Taken on the motor boat that we took yesterday on the Mekong as a part of our kayaking, birdwatching sunset adventure tour



MARCH 24th A CORNER: a Tokay gecko perched in a corner of the pillar near the hand basins at our pit stop on the bus trip to Stung Treng four days ago. I was hoping he’d still be there today when we pulled into the same place but no … 



MARCH 25th A STICK of driftwood found on my favourite beach in Cambodia and now a part of the collection of dried seeds, pods and treasures from nature in our apartment



MARCH 26th A MAILBOX: It’s unusual to see mail boxes here as mail is not delivered. The post office calls and you go and collect so the address must contain a phone number. I spotted this one a couple of day ago and have no idea if or how it is used but it’s nicely located on the Mekong River 



MARCH 27th A STREET: A typical one where vendors, buyers, motor scooters, bicycles, trucks and carts mingle and accommodate each other 



MARCH 28th A HAPPY PLACE: the beach and at sunset has always been my happy place. This is an archive shot of Koh Rong Sanloem and I intend to return very, very soon  



MARCH 29th A PLATE: my favourite orange one with tonight’s dinner on it



MARCH 30th A DOORMAT: There is more than one use for a doormat 



MARCH 31st A SQUARE: I seem to have developed a penchant for square bracelets over the years. “Round peg in a square hole” I guess



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