Showing posts with label living the dream. Show all posts
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Monday, May 27, 2024

The future- philosophically pondering the prospects


“What will become of us?”


This is a question we have asked ourselves forever, from China days and well beyond. Those days seem like a daze now. From the heady investments of working in Japan, to indulging in following dreams with a minimum of security later in Thailand, then the disastrous disappointment of Tanzania and finally back to beautiful Bhutan where the love affair with the people, the place and the culture will last our lifetimes. 


When we began to see that the welfare state was over and that we didn’t have the requisite attitude or desire to accrue enough to support retirement, alternative plans were laid.But how long is a piece of string? How much will be enough? Who can say?


Resistance to change and risk is a topic that arises for discussion in this digital age. Addiction to it is not! Is that where we are at? I don’t think so, but clarity is not easy. 


In a world where AI is compelling, profit is motive and obstacles and challenges uncontrollably overwhelming for so many, values and passion have become underrated and irrelevant. 


Now the question is different. 



Neither one of us wants to become the “one man standing.” However, now we avoid discussing that issue. It’s not analysed or planned for.It’s not a future either of us wants to consider. 


We are a team. We operate in an interdependent domain relying on each other constantly. We don’t want to imagine it otherwise. Nonetheless that is 
what it will become. 



It’s not, “What will become of us?.…. but, “Don’t let it be me,” that becomes the worry. But that very well may be decades or just days away! No-one can say.


Live in the present! What else is there in reality. 



Written 10/3 

Wednesday, November 29, 2023

oNe PhOtO a DaY NoVeMbEr 2023:


NOVEMBER 1st HERE I AM: in my favourite afternoon spot in the reading nook with my digital book and coffee



NOVEMBER 2nd SOMETHING SMALL: A dragonfly with translucent wings landing on the incense in our Spirit House. A fleeting moment of connection



NOVEMBER 3rd SOMETHING BIG: Today we have been playing tour guides and showing guests the city, we love: twelve hours wandering, twelve and a half kilometres walked and a very big day. One of the sights was the Royal Palace, which is possibly the biggest attraction in the whole city and these are the very big gates on the front facade towering over the human sized guard houses

 


NOVEMBER 4th BRAVE: is almost never a descriptor of me but this is an archive shot of the first time I ventured back on to my bicycle three months after shattering my kneecap. With no strength and very little balance even this supervised stationary cycling seemed brave at the time

 


NOVEMBER 5th 2pm: at the National Museum. Orange lovers unite



NOVEMBER 6th TREES: This delightful courtyard cafe nestled amongst the giant trees ticks all the boxes

 


OCTOBER 7th FAVE SHOES: This recently bought pair are new faves as they feel like I’m walking on the clouds. After the last pair were stitched, restitched, glued and reglued, I finally replaced them and wondered why I hadn’t done that earlier

 


NOVEMBER 8th TIME: Right now, it’s lunchtime and though I usually don’t eat lunch, this homemade and healthy, cheese and salad baguette was perfect after a morning on the go



NOVEMBER 9th TRIO: Since moving into our apartment almost eighteen months ago we have only had one key to the terrace security door. Today we finally got two more cut. Now we have a trio

 


NOVEMBER 10th EYES: I finally made a few decisions and got started on my FMS Gift Exchange and walking home I remembered stone mason’s street and strolled down for the first time in a long while. I was hoping for an image of Buddha’s eyes, which when half open like this symbolise a mind that is awake but turned inwards often in meditation



NOVEMBER 11th FLUFFY: footwear is a thing here but it‘s too funky for me thanks. I actually followed this young girl out of the market to take a canid shot of her unique styling of the look - of course they were torn to tatters jeans too


 

NOVEMBER 12 PETALS: I have always loved the way the lotus petals are usually folded when they are presented as an offering at temples. These were in the hands of Buddha as we took our regular shortcut through the quiet temple compound this afternoon. Some are folded and some are not and one garland of jasmine threaded on cotton to make a wreath offering is included too


 

NOVEMBER 13th OLDER: The comparison had me flummoxed for a while but I resorted to the memories wall in our apartment. Upper me in 2002 at the Dragon’s Backbone in China and lower in our apartment with a dear Japanese friend earlier this year. I’m definitely getting a lot older



NOVEMBER 14th MINIMALISM: in this part of the world where clutter and chaos are more often the case, minimalism has enormous appeal. This tasteful traditional outdoor decor says minimalism to me



NOVEMBER 15th I LEARNT THIS: card game the summer my partner and I first met and with time on our hands and very little money, we played it often. Now forty years later the same applies and we we are once again playing crapette. It’s like double handed patience

 


NOVEMBER 16th IN THE MIDDLE: I was on a ferry in the middle of the Tonle Sap today, returning home after table tennis via the scenic route

 


NOVEMBER 17 LINES: Only after finishing breakfast did I realise that our table setting this morning was all variations on the lines theme: from the slats in the table to the woven placemats and coasters, including the swirls on the plates and dish down to the concentric rings on the juice tumbler- lines, lines, lines and more lines

 


NOVEMBER 18th CALM: The calm before the storm - taken a couple of weeks ago when it felt like the monsoon was never going to end and now I will dare to say, for hopefully the final time, that I really think it’s over for this year


 

NOVEMBER 19th SHARP: Our knives and cleaver are all sharp thanks to the wet stone and Ian’s skill using it

 


NOVEMBER 20th A GOAL: Whilst I have not made much of an effort to learn to speak the Khmer language, it has always been my goal to have a comprehensive understanding of the culture and Theravada Buddhism. This morning we attended the elaborate 10th year memorial service held for the partner of a very dear friend

 


NOVEMBER 21st SUGAR: Today was the day we started this year’s batch of Xmas Cakes. The final step before boiling all the dried fruit in juice, stout and butter is to add the sugar. In line with our buy local philosophy we adapted the recipe and used as much local dried fruit as possible and rural support, ethically produced, local palm sugar. Xmas Cakes with a tropical twist



NOVEMBER 22nd APPLES: These were the best on offer in the local market and even my favourite variety but I am super fussy about apples and didn’t purchase any. Imported Granny Smiths sitting in the tropical heat in an outdoor stall having been refrigerated overnight. I don’t think so

 


NOVEMBER 23rd WHAT I’M READING: is this beautifully illustrated photographic book “Bhutan, a Mosaic of the Dragon” which was gifted to me here in Cambodia. Whenever I have a need to clarify something about Bhutanese culture I turn to this book and soon find myself lost in its pages and my memories. Today, once again my thoughts have been dwelling in Bhutan



 NOVEMBER 24th A VICE: Recently we have been focused on increasing the alcohol-free days count, but with the target almost achieved, the silly season almost upon us and three different groups of guests all arriving in December that’s gone out the window and the bar is being stocked for some serious celebrating



 NOVEMBER 25th LEAVES: The feathery fern like leaves of the Flamboyant Tree casting shadows on the deck around the pool yesterday. Although they are native to Madagascar, here the tree is planted prolifically in the both the streets and private gardens. When they are in flower the common name of flame tree seems the perfect descriptor

 


NOVEMBER 26th YUMMY: Yesterday we baked the first batch of this year’s Xmas cakes and the whole apartment smelt yummy.  A fine Xmas tradition that we have upheld for decades continues

 


NOVEMBER 27th I REMEMBER: when we left Australia to teach in China for a year just months after the Tiananmen Square ‘incident’ and it began a love affair with teaching abroad that stretched to include six countries and a total of twenty six years. Taken on timer with our first ever shared camera in our living room in Taiyuan Shanxi province in 1989. It had to be an archive shot for this prompt

 


 NOVEMBER 28th TO DO LIST: There is only one thing on everyone’s do to list here today …. “Win, win, win.” The final day of three days of racing begins in an hour and boats have been out on the river for four or more hours already. Over thirty boats, over 20,000 rowers and there is a palpable atmosphere of exuberance on riverside as Om Tuk heads into its spectacular finale

 


NOVEMBER 29th A VIEW: of Wat Ounalom from the sky bar we were in last night to watch the last couple of hours of racing, spectacular floats on the Tonle Sap and fireworks display for the third and final day of Om Tuk (Water Festival)

 


NOVEMBER 30th IN MY BACKYARD: Living on the fourth floor we don’t actually have a backyard only a back balcony, so this was taken in a friend’s backyard yesterday. We feel very grateful to be able to regularly enjoy this beautiful space and revel in the tranquillity




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Tuesday, October 31, 2023

oNe PhOtO a DaY OcToBer 2023:

 


OCTOBER 1st RED: wine! A rare treat in Cambodia. Glad to be me



OCTOBER 2nd BLACK: driftwood washed in on the tide and looking artistic against the white sand in Saracen Bay



OCTOBER 3rd WHITE: Long stretch of white, sandy beach without a single other soul in sight. That’s island life

 


OCTOBER 4th GREEN: Yesterday we did a short jungle hike - more like a bush bash as us Aussies might say and the end point after walking through walls of green was this rapidly flowing waterfall. The overnight monsoon rain had added substantially to the volume of water and a delightful young compatriot volunteered to guide us having been there the day before. Today is all about returning home- speedboats, tuk tuk and buses with a bit of luck and a fair wind we’ll see the sunset from the terrace



OCTOBER 5th BLUE: I’m going with this shot of the faded blue of the facade, doors and shutters in an old residence in Kampot. It’s from the archive and one of my all-time favourite images of Cambodia especially now that that it has disappeared due to renovations

 


OCTOBER 6th YELLOW: I have no idea what these flowers are used for but it must be a Khmer dish as they are always available fresh in the market and always attract a million tiny bees

 


OCTOBER 7th PURPLE: These tiny, local eggplants about the size of a quail egg, are popular across South East Asia and used in soups, curries and hotpot dishes. I find them rather bitter and prefer the elongated variety but they are in abundant supply in the markets at the moment



OCTOBER 8th AQUA: Out on a Sunday afternoon stroll keeping our eyes peeled for aqua. We decided to stop for gelato and this little aqua hare doorstop caught my eye



OCTOBER 9th PINK: Nothing says the tropics like frangipani flowers. Pink frangipani and the fragrance is the bonus



OCTOBER 10th GREY: A grey shadow selfie inspired by the grey planks of the deck and the bright sunshine today. Swimming for sanity; my movement meditation routine that clears the monkey mind and brings inner peace - Om Mani Padme Hum

 


OCTOBER 11th BROWN: Gifts from nature discovered on our urban wanderings and now a brown bouquet in the guest room

 


OCTOBER 12th ORANGE: Anyone who knows me knows….

 


OCTOBER 13th NEUTRAL TONES: my collection of sea shells in a glass jar in the bathroom. Displaying the neutral tones of nature in water to make the colours shine


 

OCTOBER 14th FAVE COLOUR: Mine is orange and today is the middle day of the three-day holiday for Pchum Ben. The second most important religious festival in Cambodia and we were at Wat Ounalom early this morning to take in the activities of families honouring their ancestors and celebrating with offerings. It was a hive of activity and all the monks were resplendent in their orange robes

 


OCTOBER 15th BLACK + WHITE: of the inner-city scape: the imprint left on the wall when an adjoining building is demolished

 


OCTOBER 16th STRIPES: This pattern of vertical and horizontal stripes denotes a temple or monastery of the Theravada Buddhist faith. This particular one is Mongkolvan Monastery, and it is currently festooned with both flags and buntings after a recent refurbishment and for the Khmer Pchum Ben festival, which officially ended yesterday. We stopped in this morning to enjoy the tranquillity of the grounds dressed in all their finery. For vegetarians like us these flags also alert us to the fact that particular food outlets are 100% pure vegetarian


 

OCTOBER 17th FLORAL: Today’s purchase at the local market as a floral offering for our home altar

 


OCTOBER 18th POP OF COLOUR: Not just any colour but definitely my favourite and one of my favourite subjects too. Orange monks



OCTOBER 19th ONE COLOUR: The chocolate brown of freshly roasted local coffee cooling off on the footpath. It was the wafting scent in the air that attracted me to the scene and the process was fascinating 


 
1. Spinning the drum to cool the beans after they have been roasted over charcoal


2. Cooling off 


3. Spraying with a solution of palmsugar and water, which creates a caramel flavour 


4. Finally spreading the beans out to complete cooling before grinding as required 

*That's the complete local process for roasting which we smell from our fourth floor apartment regularly including today. Just in case you are a curious coffee addict like me 

 


OCTOBER 20th TWO COLOURS: The gold and brown design of windows in a local pagoda

 


OCTOBER 21st PATTERN: The pattern of shadows cast on the ceiling in our bedroom due to light from the outside shining through the breather bricks of the side wall, which you can see on the right side of the image. Just one of the many original features of our apartment, which I adore

 


OCTOBER 22nd MATCHING: architectural features in these adjoining apartments in Phnom Penh. Remnants of a bygone era lovingly restored and maintained

 


OCTOBER 23rd DARK: The dark selfie reflection in the puddle of rain on the flagstones surrounding the pool today seemed ominously like my mood in recent times

 


OCTOBER 24th LIGHT: The beautiful atrium in the centre of a traditional deco cinema building converted to a boutique hotel in Kampot. The perfect spot to appreciate the natural light, and blue sky while enjoying a delicious lunch

 


OCTOBER 25th PASTEL: We have recently started sending snail mail to friends and family again and I am always on the lookout for local images to post. Recent purchases include this set of pastel toned cards



OCTOBER 26th VIBRANT: art deco interior design is just one of the inspiring features of the Hotel Old Cinema in Kampot. Each room has its own individual tropical mural and a unique design. It’s got all the feel-good vibes. We can’t wait to go back

 

OCTOBER 27th GOLD: The pre-packaged boxes sold at various stalls in the markets and always purchased to give as an offering at pagodas. I’m always intrigued about what they may contain but I assume it would be a complete set of new robes for a newly ordained monk

 


OCTOBER 28th SILVER: The five silver rings I always wear. Each one was bought in a different country and for a specific special occasion. All of them are battered and scratched and I love them all. 
It took quite the act of contortion to get them all in the shot with the phone on 10 second timer

 


OCTOBER 29th DOTTY: An archive shot of the first thing that comes to mind when I think of dots. That would be the Yayoi Kusama Exhibition



OCTOBER 30th SUNSHINE: Blue skies, thirty two degrees and sunshine over the palms on riverside. Just another day in Phnom Penh

 


OCTOBER 31st RAINBOW: When I think of rainbow colours I always think of prayer flags flapping in the wind. This is an archive shot of the covered bridge in Thimphu and one of my favourite images from that dearly loved kingdom

 


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