Saturday, April 29, 2023

oNe PhOtO a DaY ApRiL 2023:


APRIL FACELESS SELF PORTRAIT: Playing with the shadows and light on the terrace and enjoying the early morning cool breezes

*This one was selected for the Facebook Fab grid

 


APRIL 2nd OUTSIDE: I’m always happy to spot gum trees on the trail running parallel to the train line and this morning was no exception. Not complaining about the aircon carriage, which is actually a bonus as its been extremely hot lately but it does mean taking pics through grimy windows



APRIL 3rd SOMETHING PURPLE: A beautiful purple flower in my favourite secluded garden in Kep



APRIL 4th ABOVE YOUR HEAD: Our second trip to the pagoda today for special memorial services and the decorations for Khmer New Year are already up and its looking great. There are hundreds of umbrellas and traditional scarves above my head. Second selfie this month too  



*The decorations that have been made as preparation for Khmer New Year

 


APRIL 5th SOLO: vendors plying their trade with hand carts, on moto food trucks or from shoulder poles still abound all over Cambodia. Phnom Penh is no exception and I often wonder how many kilometres they clock up on a daily basis

 


APRIL 6th ARTIFICIAL: The Royal Palace under artificial light as we strolled by today


 

APRIL 7th SOMETHING GOOD: Ian’s homemade bread making the apartment smell delicious


 

APRIL 8th A FAVOURITE SPACE: The terrace of our apartment is where we eat almost all our meals, cool off and entertain. It is certainly a favourite and ever evolving space which I love even more now we have finally installed a spirit house

 


APRIL 9th EGG: Yay! This prompt inspired a delicious soft-boiled egg breakfast

 


APRIL 10th ENTRANCE: to Street 5, which is closed off to traffic but not pedestrians this morning looked like this. The whole block is full of monks, devotees and ceremonial paraphernalia and decorations as the ceremonies and celebrations for Khmer New Year begin in earnest. We awoke to squealing and water fight shenanigans from the nightclub district at 3am and are now being soothed by the sound of dozens of monks chanting



APRIL 11th DELICATE: Lotus blooms rarely last more than a single day and yet they are always locally available. Folding in the petals for display is also a very delicate process. I can’t resist them and always think of the quote, “Like the lotus we can rise from the murky mud, bloom from the darkness and trust in our unfolding.” No wonder I cannot resist them

 


APRIL 12th A NUMBER: It’s not often that we are number one at anything but we were happy to claim the prime river view and street scenes seats in the local last night when we spontaneously decided to slip out to enjoy the revelry of dancing, water fights, drinking, overbearingly loud music, street side BBQ’s and general frivolity as the whole city turns up the dial on celebrations preceding Khmer New Year

 


APRIL 13th A PATTERN: The exquisite dragonfly and leaf pattern rendered in lacquer on a coconut bowl I recently purchased



APRIL 14th THIS SEASON: in Cambodia is celebratory as today is the first day of Khmer New Year, called Maha Sangkranta. On this day people wear new clothes, and decorate their spirit houses or front porches with flowers, fruit and incense to welcome the new angel who will come and take nourishment then bless the household for the whole of the coming year



APRIL15th SOMETHING WHITE: These white, feather-like seeds are from the spectacular Flamboyant tree which are all over the Kingdom of Wonder. I have loved them since I saw them used in garlands in Bhutan. These are from my seed pod display in the living room


 

APRIL 16th WHAT INSPIRES ME: most of all is travelling to somewhere new. Even though we lived in Kep for almost five years we never visited Angkol Beach until this morning

 


APRIL 17th STARTS WITH B: The blessing of burning Bhutanese butter lamps is my choice for today because although it is an archive shot today we got news that makes us believe we will be blessed enough to be in Bhutan again


 

APRIL 18th MIX: This feature wall is a mix of old shutters and in a mix of bright colours in a new resto-bar in Kep



APRIL 19th CARD: I have something of an obsession with cards and postcards and buy, collect and send them regularly. This is one of only two reclining Buddhas we have and both came from Lao

 


APRIL 20th ALLEY: The indoor-outdoor zone of the local market is maze of alleys and half covered areas, which can be very difficult to navigate. It has evolved over time with an old wooden house functioning as the administration office buried in the heart of it and every conceivable item is available. It’s just a matter of finding what you need

*This one was selected on the day as a fabber on Facebook

 


APRIL 21st LEAFY: Since moving in we have been trying to cultivate a wall of leafy greenery on the terrace of the Aerie as a privacy screen as we would rather not view the neighbour’s washing or antics from our terrace. I think it’s coming along nicely and the soon to arrive rainy season may just keep it alive in our absence

*This one was chosen as a fabber on Facebook too

 


APRIL 22nd SOMETHING PRETTY: a pink cannonball tree flower I spotted in front of the National Museum returning from a breakfast out with a friend this morning, fits the bill for me. I was actually looking for an alternative to flowers but once I realized that today is Earth Day I decided this was just perfect

 


APRIL 23rd OPEN: Whenever I see Khmer grown lotus roots I always buy them. The key is to ensure that the ends are all completely closed and they have not been exposed to the air. It’s only when you cut them open that you can see if they are clean and fresh like these that I purchased in the market this morning and have since turned into my favourite salad

 


APRIL 24th PEACEFUL: In my mind there is nothing more peaceful or calming than the sound of the ocean. This was taken a week ago, on our last day in Kep when we were out walking in the early morning and there was not another soul in sight. The inner city in a heat wave is not so peaceful actually


 

APRIL 25th FOUND: I finally found the courage to trust another hairdresser in Phnom Penh and maybe I’ve found my regular now. In a heat wave a number zero with the clippers is just perfect! Another selfie done for this month too

 


APRIL 26th BOWL: We had just decided that we were going to have Buddha Bowls for dinner when I looked up today’s prompt so I decided that was the shot to take. The bowl I almost always eat dinner from at home with a favourite dinner we haven’t had in a while in it, is it for today


 

APRIL 27th FOUR-LEGGED: Geckos are the most frequent four-legged friends visiting our home but these Tokay Geckos are usually heard but not seen. They can be quite aggressive and are always very loud. Khmer believe it’s a blessing to have one in your house. The markings are very striking and they give you the impression that they are always watching you

 


APRIL 28th SIMPLE JOY: Creating a wall collage of photographs of us and family and friends that spans a forty-year timeframe. I added three more this morning. It brings me joy every time I pass by and I often stop and look for an image of someone I’m thinking about

 


APRIL 29th FAMILY: Three generations of one family on one motor scooter. This is the norm here. The most I have seen are six members of the same family on one Moto but today this was the best I could get

 


APRIL 30th POP OF COLOUR: When we hung the art, we returned from Australia with, it seemed a bit too gloomy against the stark white expanse of wall. After long deliberation we purchased this incredible pop of colour by a local artist to add to the mix


 

THE PROMPTS

 

 

 

 

Saturday, April 22, 2023

Random thoughts and pondering - playing the waiting game!


May just might be a mystery…… 

 

 

18/4

I have my best hopes placed in the idea that we will be in Bhutan in May.

 

Given that we finally managed to get our apartment in June last year after a prolonged and frustrating four months of waiting, that actually means we have never experienced May in the capital.

 

If things go according to plan then we might just be in Bhutan in May this year and we have actually been waiting for that for a couple of months now too. 

 

That however means that we will have had to wait 23 months to know what living in PP in May involves, by then. 

 

“It’s a mystery to me

The game commences…”

Well the waiting game continues but here we go again.

 


April has actually been a scorcher, with incredible heat wave conditions across the region and we soon discovered that there can be several hours of no water in the middle of the day on a regular basis. Luckily, we were alerted to this prospect by an article in the Khmer Times and were grateful that we have lived in several places where this has been the case and thus responded promptly and had a tried and true coping strategy to follow. 

 


Add in, that Khmer New year water fights seem to have priority over households when it comes to the available supply, but this one  was the first for us in the capital and we loved the noise, the antics and the water bombings.


 

 Now the waiting for the rainy season begins in earnest as it will also ensure that we return to a more regular water supply and hopefully the end of the heat wave. 

 

Setting a challenge…….. 

 

19/4

 

I decided last night to make sure we did something productive to prepare to consult in Bhutan, to make the Aerie better packed up to walk away from at short notice and to purchase both personal and educational items to take with us as a daily challenge until we know dates and have visas.



And today we did just that. I completed the document on play-way I have been working on and decided to work on place-based next but I also acknowledged to myself that the real challenge will be phonics. And that is what my thoughts continually return to, so now I’m glad I collected a few resources and digital phonics references while we were in Kep.

 


We are hoping that the strategies and methodology we applied to teaching phonics to our little monks in Kep will once again prove to be both successful and fun in a classroom setting. Only time will tell how well they suit the Bhutanese scenario, however. 

 


We were also able to deal with the root bound Jasmine bush and repot it so that more of the terrace garden stands a chance of survival in our absence.

 







We went out on a mission to buy a policeman’s cap but the shop was closed or more likely not yet reopened after Khmer New Year, so I ended up with a backpack to use for school and hand luggage and some gifts. Pretty good start on this phase of “Bracing for Bhutan.”




Coming up the stairs more easily twice today has also reminded me that I need to add a daily inclusion of exercise to the new regime! I’m back to more diligently applying myself to the stretch and balance exercises prescribed by Hugo, now that swimming isn’t frequent enough to yield improvement in both range of motion and balance! It seems to be paying off too.

 

I’m actually feeling more positive than I have in weeks.

 

Learning to like me ……..


 

21/4


I’ve convinced myself for most of my life that I’m just too sensitive and I shouldn’t take things to heart so much but recently I’ve decided that there is no such thing as too sensitive!

 

Actually no one wants to be the lowest priority, or be kept waiting constantly, or feel they are being taken for granted or simply ignored. That’s not too sensitive. It’s normal. What’s the flip side? It’s being insensitive, indifferent, uncaring or unconcerned? Better to own your feelings and acknowledge them even if it’s only to yourself, I say.

 

Nope I’m sensitive. It’s a positive. That’s it.

 


I’ve also been constantly told that I’m ‘so organized.’ I’ve always thought that was positive but the statement has often been delivered in such a way that it sounds like a criticism or pseudonym for boring!

 

A long time ago I realized that it’s actually being mindful and I can thank Bhutan for that insight.

 

Mindfulness is a relatively new buzz word but I see so much mindlessness around me in the modern world that I am certain we would all do well to adopt a more mindful attitude to daily life.

 

I’m finally beginning to see myself in a more positive light. How many decades has that taken!