Friday, November 13, 2026

A RED LETTER DAY IN KEP


We were commandeered into helping our friend photograph the harvesting of the rice in her fields and then to go up to the pagoda to see the monks and find out what could be done to assist their learning. A task we were both willing and keen to be involved in. We had asked Rocky to be our driver for the day and were off at 9am. 



The day got turned on its head but all was eventually resolved. The harvester wasn’t at the fields when expected and after waiting some time and inspecting the property and the preparations for harvesting, we decided to go up to the pagoda first  instead of hanging around. 



There were very few monks visible when we arrived but Nit, who is now in charge of the place in the Abbot’s absence and was a member of our original monk class, appeared and sat down to discuss with us. In no time we discovered that his brother Gam also a member of that first class, was no longer working and simply at home with nothing to do since he didn’t want to return to school or be a monk. 




Soon enough we arrived at the idea that Don Bosco might be an alternative for him. If he could learn a skill and also find a pathway to employment that would be ideal. We took Nit with us and off to the Don Bosco School we all went. There the administration staff soon informed us that without having completed year 12 there was no chance of admitting him. However there is an affiliated programme at the nearby TVET school. So off we went to investigate that option. 



A discussion with the office there produced some hopeful plans for registration and possible entry as lunchtime approached, so our next destination was to get to Delis for lunch before noon. Nit as a monk would need to be fed before noon and that window was rapidly closing. 



Soon enough everyone including Rocky had been treated to lunch and the harvester, which had now been repaired was expected to arrive at the rice fields at noon too. 



After arriving there we discovered not only was it not there but neither were any staff. Another change of plans and we returned to the pagoda with Nit stressing that he needed to talk to Gam and another cousin, about their interest in the TVET programme. We needed to resolve this today or tomorrow, which was already packed with appointments. 



At this point we knew the harvester had not arrived so we all took a break at Kep coffee and waited there taking the opportunity to recharge a phone at the same time. 



When we arrived at the rice fields for the third time both staff and two harvesters were on their way and harvesting soon commenced.  There was a flurry of  activity with even the youngest children playing a part, while we were recording the goings on. At that point Nit called to inform us that both boys were keen to register for the program we had discovered and so we arranged to meet them at 3:30pm and continue to the TVET school together. Both Yary and Nit were convinced that our presence as foreigners was paramount as they would want to be seen to be doing their jobs.  



Of course the boys misunderstood and thought that they would be picked up at the pagoda which caused another delay. The office was called and after pleading with them, they agreed to remain open for us. Several messages and calls later the boys finally proceeded towards us. 



Nit arrived with Gam but the other cousin was on another moto and it apparently had a breakdown en route. Carry on regardless! Off to the TVET school we and Gam went, while Nit waited for the cousin. 



At that office forms appeared, questions were asked and registration was underway for Gam when Chhit arrived with Nit. Right, so the cousin and the moto driver are both also former members of the Wat Phomn Poon monk body.  



Task complete! Both boys were registered and the moto rider turned out to be Nit and Gam’s father. How that can be is beyond my comprehension but it is the case. 



Finally at some point after 5 o’clock we got back in the tuk tuk with Nit as the boys returned to their village with dad. Nit bailed at the roundabout, we paid Rocky at the beach and decide to walk back along the coast as darkness was descending. 

Hopefully it was a profitable day for Rocky with lunch and coffee included. There was a lot of waiting around, backtracking and in total more than an 8 hour day. 



Of course our walk ended in darkness and rain but nothing could dampen our spirits at that point. 




Saturday, October 31, 2026

oNe PhOtO a DaY oCtObEr 2026


OCTOBER 1st A IS FOR... Art … no not street art ... beach art



OCTOBER 2nd B IS FOR … boats in the bay- M’Pai Bay to be exact 



OCTOBER 3rd C IS FOR … cocktail. Every celebration deserves a cocktail and yesterday was our wedding anniversary



OCTOBER 4th DIS FOR... deliveries. It seems to me that the whole world currently relies on them and I can honestly say that I have never ordered food delivery in my life



OCTOBER 5th E IS FOR... espresso. Yes please



OCTOBER 6th F IS FOR … family and friends. A mirror selfie taken with the reflection of my family and friends wall and it seems appropriate because the highlight of today was a long phone conversation with a very dear friend a great distance away and I also added two new photos to this wall 



OCTOBER 7th G IS FOR … garden. Even with a small terrace and a narrow balcony it’s always possible to create a little green space and it brings me so much pleasure 



OCTOBER 8th H IS FOR … haulage. We bought a secondhand kitchen cabinet and knew it would not fit through the narrow opening at the top of the stairs but today our Mr Fixit and his offsider managed to haul it from the first flight of stairs up to the third level and carry it up to the fourth, just as he has with other purchases. They were tipped handsomely for their efforts and fed chocolate cake too



OCTOBER 9th I IS FOR … ink. Just what the ink pad needed for me to use my hand carved wooden stamps



OCTOBER 10th J IS FOR …jasmine. The one on the terrace is in full bloom at the moment and a moody shot captures the near empty streets of Phnom Penh as the city empties out for Pchum Ben 



OCTOBER 11th K IS FOR … knots. These decorative Chinese knotted red tassels neutralise negative energy according to Fengshui. They also symbolise good fortune, prosperity and happiness and this one hangs in our guest room 



OCTOBER 12th L IS FOR … locks. It’s Pchum Ben so most businesses are closed and locked up tight. This icebox is obviously part of a streetside stall and therefore locked very securely in situ 



OCTOBER 13th M IS FOR … monsoon madness. Just when we thought it was over there was thunder lightning and heavy rain for the whole night last night 



OCTOBER 14th N IS FOR … nails. Nail bars are big business here but this was a first for me. This afternoon in the market I spotted a young girl practising her skills on these single finger moulds! Macabre really but Halloween is just around the corner 



OCTOBER 15th O IS FOR … orchid. This one has just begun to bloom on our terrace 



OCTOBER 16th P IS FOR: presents. A very special little girl turns five tomorrow and the joy is in tearing off the paper I’m told so there’s my recycled paper wrapping effort to enhance the fun 



OCTOBER 17th Q IS FOR … quay. Today as we disembarked from the ferry from Akreiy Ksatr 



OCTOBER 18th R IS FOR … roaster -a retro roadside coffee roaster in our hood and we can smell it from home 



OCTOBER 19th S IS FOR … spinach. Bought fresh today and turned into spinach maki for tonight’s Buddha Bowl dinner 



OCTOBER 20th T IS FOR … tradition. These traditional structures are now rapidly disappearing and we like to support places where they have been restored and renovated for business purposes. Tonight’s dinner venue 



OCTOBER 21st U IS FOR: undergrowth. On our hike up to Phnom Da today the undergrowth was lush, dense and prolific thanks to the recent monsoon storms



OCTOBER 22nd V IS FOR … vendor. A mobile vendor shredding coconut for the delicious sweet rice snacks she sells. It is added to fermented mixed black rice and sticky rice with sesame seeds and rolled in rice flour crepes. We spotted her on our morning stroll to the bank 



OCTOBER 23rd W IS FOR: wheelchair. A most unusual sight here especially courtesy ones in restaurant settings 



OCTOBER 24th X IS FOR: Xray. This was not where we expected to be but fingers crossed ….. phew the radiographer’s notes say “unremarkable” 



OCTOBER 25th Y IS FOR …  YeakSa.  It can be translated into giant or ogre in Khmer. Despite their fierce faces they are figures who protect sacred places and they in appear in Hindu, Jain, and Buddhist cultures. This one is a small carved wooden sculpture I spotted



OCTOBER 26th Z IS FOR … Zoncello. An addictive discovery I made last trip home to Australia, thanks to a great friend who knows me too well. Archive shot for want of discovering anything z today



OCTOBER 27th YOUR NAME (OR NICKNAME): I’ve had many over the years: Vic, the Vixter, charter bus, Ms Victoria, Weiji, but the one that’s suck for almost 40 years and I actually choose to use myself in correspondence is “V”. The child of a dear friend started calling my partner and me “E&V” when she was in primary school and we still both use it and it’s even a hashtag these days. Thanks Lexi you always were a bright spark



OCTOBER 28th A SENTENCE: After two years of seeing this sign and cringing this prompt motivated me. I let the redundancy go but … It’s not vandalism if the grammarian in me made me do it 



OCTOBER 29th WORDS INSIDE A BOOK: about mindfulness, which appropriately enough I received as a participant in the gift exchange Chantelle organizes each year in conjunction with this group  

*this was a Fabber on Facebook



OCTOBER 30th  A QUOTE YOU LIKE: and which stands on the hall table. There are several scattered through different rooms in our home. I hand write them change periodically but this is a favourite 



OCTOBER 31st FREE CHOICE: Yesterday’s performance of “Dance Through Time” was a spectacle of dazzling skills and grace but this piece to the voice of Edith Piaf was absolutely divine



PROMPTS